As a child I was always taught to say yes to people, to oblige or to turn a blind eye. Even as I recall, my godmother once told me that a particular person's badger sexual harassment or not should only merit him a "walk-away" but I say BS to that and MFN to that. (Ask me personally what is MFN as I don't want to get my post deleted...for any reason) As I am pracitising self love and self affirmation I realized that once I learn to love myself, everything else will fall into place. My anxiety for "getting a girlfriend" or waiting for the ************** MM to get back to me is no longer a priority. I am happier now, but I also realized that I can also want and pray for something without being paranoid or obsessive over it. So today the MM messaged me and asked me if I would date a MUCH older woman. I am glad I said no, instead of yes as per the last time because I regretted it greatly as our mentality and approaches had differed. I was also used to saying or obliging to the MM thinking